
On Saturday night BJ and I got Grandma and Grandpa Chaffin to babysit our girls so that we could go out on a long overdue date night. After we dropped off the kids we headed to one of my favorite restaurants Mackenzie River Pizza. After a lovely adult conversation over cheesy lodge poles, chicken alfredo, a veggie loaded pizza, and a chocolate molten cake we headed off to the movies. Since this was a date night I was totally in the mood to see a romantic flick so we decided to catch a showing of Dear John. I was lucky BJ agreed to this movie, it was a good thing it stared Channing Tatum, from G.I. Joe. Now BJ can enjoy a good romantic comedy every now and then, but fully loaded chick flicks are another story......so thank you honey for letting me choose the movie. Now I would have to say that the movie wasn't the best I have ever seen or even close, but it was very interesting and had a real twist to it. More amusing than the movie however were the people around us who had also come to see the show. When we first got there,a whole half an hour early I might add, the whole theatre was almost full! There were still four or five rows that looked completely empty but as we tried to sit down in almost all of them we kept hearing, "Sorry we are saving these seats!" followed by me saying, "All of them?!" followed by a, "Yes, ALL OF THEM!" I think that it should be a rule that you can't save more than two seats, especially on a busy night and especially when your party arrives 10 minutes after the movie has started! Anywho, we finally found two seats next to each other right beside a gigantic group of teeny boppers........................and I thought I was hormonal............those girls were sobbing the whole way through, but what annoyed me the most was all the giggles during the kissing scenes, etc. Holy crap, like they haven't seen anything like that before, honestly, the movie was pretty darn clean and still the giggles roared. About half way through the movie I was ready to ask the couple who sat behind us for a drink of booze they snuck in, seriously they cracked open like 4 cans of beer! I think they sure enjoyed themselves! All silly things put aside, It was just fun to go out with my hubby for a whole 4 hours of toddler and baby free time. I wish we could do it more often, but we are lucky if we get to go out once a month. We need to make it more of a priority. I just have a hard time leaving my kids. Somehow I feel like I am neglecting them when I think about myself and going out. I just need to let it go. Last weekend I went to dinner with my sister and she explained to me how important it was that I get out more even just by myself and how much better I will feel and be as a mom if I take a break every now and then. By the way, Melissa, if you are reading this I want you to know that I had a blast and I can't wait until we go out again! Funny story about that.......my sister Melissa and I went to Jakes to get some dinner and there was not seating open, so the hostess told us to pull up a stool at the bar, order a drink, and then when a table opened up we could take it. It was already pretty late and my sister's babysitter had another job after watching her kids, so we decided to stay. When we sat down the bartender said, "I have to ask, are you girls 21 or older? You have to be at least 21 to sit at the bar." This made us laugh. Melissa who is 34 asked, "well how old do I look?" The bartender replied,"maybe 23?" Melissa responded by telling her real age and added the fact that she also had six children. After which I asked how old he thought I was to which he replied, "not even 21!" I told him I was 25 and that I also had two kids, to that he said, "I don't don't know what I should say to that, would you guys like a drink?" As most of you know we don't drink so we ordered a Sprite and a Diet Coke and chatted while we ordered some food and waited for an empty table. As soon as we received our food we found an open table and enjoyed some more good conversation. What a fun time I had. Although after how learning how old the bartender thought I was and having some of my parent's friends ask me what year in high school I am in one day while shopping with my mom last week I am beginning to think that people must be really confused when they see me out about with my two kids. Do I really look that young? Oh well, I guess that's a good thing, when I am old I will still look younger.......hopefully I can avoid getting any face lifts when I am old!